Hey there, folks! Welcome back to the Louro Training Chronicles, where we blend science with practice to guide you toward your best self. If you thought we were done after starting small, think again. We’re just getting started.
We’re diving into Part 2 of our—dare I say—epic three-part series on the art of habit formation, drawing inspiration from James Clear’s "Atomic Habits." Ready or not, it’s time to talk about the not-so-smooth part of the journey: overcoming challenges and staying on track.
The Habit Maze: More Twists and Turns Than a Soap Opera
You’ve taken the first step, and you’re on your way. But let’s not kid ourselves; the road to habit mastery isn’t exactly a straight line. There will be days when your motivation decides to take an unexpected vacation, and obstacles will pop up like uninvited guests at a party. Welcome to the habit maze.
Starting strong is one thing, but the real game is staying strong, especially when life throws its curveballs. This is where your inner strategist needs to step up to the plate.
Unpacking Motivation: Identifying Your 'Why'
While motivation might not be the entire game when it comes to habit formation, it certainly plays a crucial role in uncovering the powerful ‘whys’ behind the habits we aim to cultivate, aiding significantly in our journey to success. There are two main types of motivation at play here: intrinsic motivation, stemming from internal desires and personal rewards, and extrinsic motivation, driven by external factors and potential rewards or penalties.
Dan and Chip Heath, in their insightful book "Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard," illustrate this concept with a compelling analogy. They liken intrinsic motivation to an elephant and extrinsic motivation to its rider. The rider can attempt to guide the elephant, using logic and external incentives, but when the elephant (intrinsic motivation) truly wants to do something, it does it with undeniable force, and there’s little the rider (extrinsic motivation) can do to stop it.
The Elephant and the Rider: A Tale of Two Motivations
This analogy beautifully captures the essence of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation. The rider, representing extrinsic motivation, might have a map and a plan, using rewards and punishments to guide the elephant. However, the elephant, embodying intrinsic motivation, brings the power, the passion, and the drive. When the elephant decides to move, it moves with purpose and determination.
Dan and Chip Heath summarize it perfectly: “When the Elephant really wants to do something, the Rider can try to tug on the reins or dig in his spurs, but he’s ultimately just along for the ride.” This underscores the immense power of intrinsic motivation. When we tap into our inner elephant, finding joy and satisfaction in the habits we’re forming, we unlock a level of motivation that is truly unstoppable.
Harnessing the Power of the Elephant
So, how do we harness the power of the elephant, making intrinsic motivation work in our favor? It starts with finding your ‘why,’ connecting with what truly matters to you on a personal level. It’s about aligning your habits with your values, passions, and interests, rather than just chasing external rewards or avoiding punishments.
When the elephant is on board, and your habits are fueled by intrinsic motivation, you’re not just going through the motions. You’re engaged, you’re passionate, and you’re unstoppable. And that, my friends, is the secret to habit change that lasts.
Overcoming Obstacles: Strategies for Success
Expect the Unexpected: Challenges are part of the game. When you hit a snag, don’t tap out. Use it as a chance to get creative and strengthen your habit muscles.
Find Your Why: Reconnect with your reasons for starting this habit. Make sure it’s something that resonates with you on a personal level, not just something that looks good on paper.
Build a Support Squad: Surround yourself with people who get it. Find friends, family, or fellow habit enthusiasts who can offer a high-five or a word of encouragement when you need it.
Embrace the Power of ‘Yet’: Struggling to stick to your habit? Remember, you’re not failing; you just haven’t mastered it yet. Adding ‘yet’ to your self-talk can transform your mindset and keep you in the game.
Celebrate the Small Wins: Every step forward is worth celebrating. Let these moments of success fuel your journey and remind you why you started in the first place.
Building habits is a journey, not a race. It’s about staying the course, even when the initial excitement fades and challenges arise. Keep your eyes on the prize, and remember that every effort brings you one step closer to your goal.
Stay tuned for Part 3, where we’ll explore how to maintain your habits and ensure they stand the test of time. Until then, navigate the habit maze with your head held high, and remember: you’ve got this.
Until next time,
Louro Training